Culture Shock in Hong Kong
Believe it or not, I came back from Taiwan yesterday experiencing culture shock here in Hong Kong. Its quite unbelievable given I have lived here a good eighteen years of my life and have been spending my summers in Taiwan for the past few years. Both places are equally as familiar to me. But the strange thing happened. I was shocked, as if seeing Hong Kong for the first time. I came home yesterday to be greeted first thing by an emotionless and speechless cabby then a group of inefficient, rude and incomprehensible waitresses in Soho. No big deal. This is Hong Kong. However, it becomes unbearable when you’ve experienced hospitality in Taiwan. You start to remember what life before we all became pokerfaced workaholics was supposed to be like, what relationships between people were meant to be.
In Taiwan, I can walk around looking helpless in a bookshop trying to find the number of a café I just read about and the young gentleman at the counter would offer to look it up for me on the internet; I can walk down a street in a night market talking to my aunt about trying to find 大饼包小饼 (big pancake wrapping small pancake) and a passerby would appear from nowhere offering us directions; I can ask a waitress at a restaurant whether their wontons are Wenzhou or otherwise and she would gladly bring out the actual wonton for me to inspect, then engage me in a conversation about what kind of wonton I am looking for; I can walk up to a vendor to ask for directions of a competing vendor and he would gladly give it to me. In Hong Kong being distant seems to be the norm. I cannot even guarantee that I would do the same as the gentleman in the bookstore, the woman in the night market, the waitress at the xiaolongbao restaurant or the helpful vendor. Not because I don’t want to help these people, but because I am so used to focusing only upon my own affairs that I would probably surprise even myself if I had been over friendly.
I have a theory on how to cure this coldness disease in Hong Kong and I'll share it with you in my next post.








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